A Gentle Stranger

Friday, October 26th

Physical Therapy began in the chair for an hour today then after he was back in bed more exercises. So I have some photos to for the folks interested.

The discussion with the doctor and Respiratory folks was interesting. If he is weaning he is using calories, so he might not gain weight or gather as much strength. So...they will rest him over the weekend (no weaning :-( )  so hopefully he will gain weight and gather some strength.

It's the 3 steps forward two steps back dance.

In the afternoon, we had a visit from the chaplain , Betsy, who is a very nice tall lady with an Episcopalian background. She was in Marty's room when I got back from getting some ice water. They were having a pleasant exchange so I didn't interrupt but watched and listened for a bit. Then she asked him if she could "borrow" me. We went for coffee and had a very interesting talk. She said she had expressed to him that by the photos on the wall it looked as of he had led a very full and interesting life and he answered right away "and more to come". I was happy to hear that. Sometimes a person from outside can bring fresh eyes and ears. She and I had a really good exchange about the importance of hope, and noticing small improvements. She left me with a good deal to think about, and I was glad for the visit. I believe that Marty was as well.

In the afternoon Marty wanted to write something, so he picked up the small yellow writing pad and the pen and wrote this:

Melting...

Physical Therapist, Heather working with Marty on his core strength

Building Strength, one day at a time

Marty Jr. was here to visit with his "pops" today. he went by the house on Escalona to scope it out for improvements we need to make for Marty's return. here is  an initial rough sketch he's made. We are excited about how it's shaping up. More to come.

So all in all, Friday was a pretty good day. I am so grateful for that. 

Good night my friends and family, from the house in the trees, under a big bright moon.

Ginny & "Sir Winston" the wonder dog